If you’re like me and your significant other can’t stop talking about the series A Court of Thorns and Roses, this gift guide will save your sanity.
Times are tough, boys.
No longer are we measured against mere mortals.
Nope.
Now it’s Bat Boys, High Lords, and Illyrian warriors with wings and the perfect comeback for every argument.
We can’t all be Rhysand, but we can pull off a surprise that’ll make her swoon this holiday season. And no, it doesn’t involve learning how to winnow—just the perfect ACOTAR-inspired gift.
I can’t promise she’ll stop obsessing over her book boyfriends. But I can promise she’ll love showing off her new merch—and she’ll have you, her real boyfriend, to thank for it.
ACOTAR Sweatshirts
Soltice in the Night Court? Chilly.
Staying cozy while binge-reading emotional rollercoasters? Essential.
These ACOTAR sweatshirts are here to keep her warm, whether she’s imagining herself in Velaris or just braving the real-world cold.
Survivor of Maas Destruction
Let’s kick things off with a tribute to the emotional trauma of being a Sarah J. Maas fan. If you know anything about Game of Thrones, you know your favorite characters don’t last long.
Our gal SJM is just as ruthless.
The Survivor of Maas Destruction sweatshirt is the perfect armor for those who’ve cried over impressive wingspans and short lifespans. It’s comfy, stylish, and lets her wear her heartbreak with pride.
- Brand: Independent Trading Co
- Blend: 80% cotton, 20% polyester blend
- Style: Embroidered hoodie
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
- Colors: Charcoal
Illyrian Snowball Fight
Speaking of cold, this sweatshirt is a playful nod to the Bat Boys’ favorite Solstice tradition—the epic Illyrian Snowball Fight.
Comfy, cozy, and bat-approved!
- Brand: Gildan
- Blend: 50% cotton, 50% polyester
- Style: Classic fit crewneck
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
- Colors: White, Sport Gray
To the Stars Who Listen
For the dreamers, the stargazers, and anyone who’s whispered Rhysand’s iconic words to themselves, this hoodie is a must-have.
Soft, stylish, and celestial—it’s the perfect piece for cozy nights under the stars (or on the couch reading ACOTAR for the fifth time).
- Brand: Independent Trading Co
- Blend: 80% cotton, 20% polyester blend
- Style: Embroidered hoodie
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
- Colors: Charcoal
Live Laugh Lucien
To the unsung hero on the outskirts of the Inner Circle, the master of sass, and the guy who just can’t catch a break—this one’s for you, LuLu.
Ideal for anyone holding out hope (delulu, as the cool kids say) for Lucien to finally get the love and storyline he deserves. Comfy, quirky, and on-brand with everyone's favorite fox boy.
- Brand: Gildan
- Blend: 50% cotton, 50% polyester
- Style: Classic fit crewneck, embroidered
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
- Colors: Maroon
T-Shirts
Perfect for casual days, book club meetups, or dropping subtle hints to fellow SJM fans in the wild. Comfortable, stylish, and packed with Prythian vibes, these tees are made for every High Lady (or Lord) in training.
The Valkyrie
These ladies are badass—no question. And if your girlfriend relates a little too much to Nesta, Gwyn, and Emerie, this shirt is her new battle gear.
- Brand: Comfort Colors
- Blend: 100% ring-spun cotton
- Style: Relaxed fit
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
- Colors: Black, Berry, Ivory, Pepper, Sage, Espresso
Bat Boys
If your girlfriend’s heart secretly belongs to the Bat Boys, this t-shirt is basically a peace offering.
Featuring everyone’s favorite winged troublemakers, it’s the perfect way for her to show off her love for Rhys, Cassian, and Azriel (while you remind her who actually buys her gifts).
- Brand: Comfort Colors
- Blend: 100% ring-spun cotton
- Style: Relaxed fit
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
- Colors: Black, Grape, Blue Spruce, Crimson, Ivory, Pepper, True Navy
High Lords & Wing Leaders Book Club
Perfect for bookworms, Bat Boy stans, and anyone who wants to declare their literary loyalties in style.
- Brand: Comfort Colors
- Blend: 100% ring-spun cotton
- Style: Relaxed fit
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
- Colors: Black, Berry, Midnight, Pepper, Sage, Espresso
In My Shadow Daddy Era
The ultimate crossover for the ACOTAR-loving Swiftie, who’s all about power, wings, and re-records. Rhysand-approved and Swiftie-certified.
- Brand: Comfort Colors
- Blend: 100% ring-spun cotton
- Style: Relaxed fit
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
- Colors: Black, Midnight, Pepper, Flo Blue
Live Laugh Lucien
Lucien might not get the love and storyline he deserves in the books, but he does here. Pair it with the sweatshirt for the ultimate delulu fangirl fit—because your girlfriend knows this fox deserves his moment to shine.
- Brand: Comfort Colors
- Blend: 100% ring-spun cotton
- Style: Classic fit
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
- Colors: Black, Blue Spruce, Brick, Midnight, Moss, Pepper
Glasses & Mugs
Every cup of coffee, tea, or iced brew tastes better when it’s paired with a little Night Court magic.
The Bat Boys Tarot Iced Coffee Glass
For those who see another cup in their future—and just one more chapter.
- 16 oz Glass
- Available with bamboo lid & straw
- Design printed directly on glass (not vinyl or sticker)
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
To the Stars Who Listen Coffee Mug
For the one who starts her mornings dreaming of Velaris and ends them with one more chapter.
- 15 oz Ceramic Coffee Mug
- Microwave & Dishwasher Sage
- Double-Sided Print
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Bat Boys Coffee Mug
If you won’t make her coffee in the morning, at least these fellas will keep her company.
- Ceramic Coffee Mug
- Available in 11 oz and 15 oz
- Microwave & Dishwasher Sage
- Double-Sided Print
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Valkyrie Coffee Mug
Because every High Lady deserves a mug as fierce as her morning routine.
- Ceramic Coffee Mug
- Available in 11 oz and 15 oz
- Microwave & Dishwasher Sage
- Double-Sided Print
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Suriel Tea Company Mug
For the ultimate tea-spiller in your life—because no one knows how to dish the secrets like the Suriel. This mug is a must-have for ACOTAR fans who enjoy a cup of tea and all the piping-hot gossip that comes with it.
- Ceramic Coffee Mug
- Available in 11 oz and 15 oz
- Microwave & Dishwasher Sage
- Double-Sided Print
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Live Laugh Lucien Mug
He’s back. Start the day with a little sass and a lot of love for everyone’s favorite fox friend. Perfect for coffee, tea, and a daily dose of Delulu.
- Ceramic Coffee Mug
- Available in 11 oz and 15 oz
- Microwave & Dishwasher Sage
- Double-Sided Print
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
High Lord and Wing Leader Book Club Mug
The perfect companion for Bat Boy book clubs and endless cups of coffee, tea, (or wine).
- Ceramic Coffee Mug
- Available in 11 oz and 15 oz
- Microwave & Dishwasher Sage
- Double-Sided Print
- Accent Colors in Black, Dark Blue, Dark Green, Pink
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Shadow Daddy Mug
This mug is a not-so-subtle nod to her favorite Shadow Daddy and the era she’s unapologetically thriving in.
- Ceramic Coffee Mug
- Available in 11 oz and 15 oz
- Microwave & Dishwasher Sage
- Double-Sided Print
- Accent Colors in Black, Dark Blue, Dark Green, Pink
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Other ACOTAR Themed Gifts
Out of room in the closet for another sweatshirt? Too many mugs to count?
These unique ACOTAR finds bring the magic in unexpected ways—perfect for superfans who already have it all.
ACOTAR Valkyrie Puzzle
Featuring a scene from a fan-favorite chapter in A Court of Silver Flames where Nesta, Gwyn, and Emerie read smut and make "friendship bracelets" - yep, another nod to the Swifties.
Guaranteed to earn you serious boyfriend points (even if you don’t help her finish it).
- Available in 520 or 252 pcs puzzle
- Digitally printed
- Semi-gloss finish
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
ACOTAR Bat Boy Boyfriend Welcome Mat
A perfect gift from the man who embraces living in the shadow (pun intended) of the Bat Boys. This welcome mat is here to set the tone.
With three iconic options—“LOL you’re not Azriel,” “LOL you’re not Cassian,” and “LOL you’re not Rhysand”—it’s the perfect way for your girlfriend to lovingly roast you while staying true to her ACOTAR obsession.
- Size: 24" × 16" (61cm x 40.6cm)
- Material: Grade A tufted coir coconut fiber
- Black vinyl backing
- Outdoor use
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
To The Stars Who Listen Hat
We thought we were done with the daddy references, but here we are. Dad hats are in style, and this one checks every box for ACOTAR girlies.
Tired of her stealing your favorite hat? Problem solved.
- 100% chino cotton
- Soft, unstructured crown
- 6-panel, low-profile
- Pre-curved peak
- Stitched eyelets
- Self-fabric strap with a tri-glide buckle
- Reviews: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Bat Boys Don’t Wrap Presents—You Do
There you have it, boys.
The ultimate guide to ACOTAR gift sets that will make her swoon harder than Feyre at Starfall.
You might not be a High Lord or an Illyrian warrior with a six-foot wingspan, but with these gifts, you’ll be the real MVP of Solstice.
Remember, it’s not about competing with the Bat Boys—it’s about proving you know your stuff (or at least pretending you do).
Now go forth and claim your title as the best boyfriend in all of Prythian.
Rhysand who? Exactly.
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